is jealous;
blames others for his/her faults;
blames circumstances for existing problems;
demonstrates unpredictable behavior;
belittles his/her partner verbally;
cannot control anger or personal rage;
always asks for a second chance;
says he/she will change -- that he/she won't do it again;
may have been an abused child, or witnessed parental abuse and violence;
plays on the partner's guilt;
behaves worse when under the influence of drugs or alcohol;
is closed-minded, his/her way is the only way;
may seem charming, gregarious, gentle to non-family members;
Abuses his/her children.

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

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